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The Matrona

Quantum Birth and Wisdomkeeping

"At The Matrona, we experience the Childbirth Continuum as a portal to raising the consciousness of the planet.

If we understood the Magnitude of Birth as a gateway to transformation, everything in the world would change.

Not just birth, EVERYTHING. 

We would no longer be a species of humans that mistreats people.

The inappropriate things we do would vanish".

Whapio

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The door is open now and the planet is calling for change.

If you are feeling ready to step into the realm of quantum birth, the time is now.  

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Here's whats new
at the Matrona

the Wisdom of the Wheel
 

Hello Dear Ones…

I have spoken about Birth for many years,

starting with my own two births at home when I was 35 and 37 years old. 

I’ve said what I have to say about undisturbed birth and how birth, when approached organically and authentically, can be truly exciting and profoundly transformative and a relatively complication-free experience.

 

Now, as I approach my 80th year it is Death that captivates me.

For a while now I have been courting my death and dancing with my mortality.

I feel the call of another deep and profound reality and I’m preparing for my death much like I prepared for my births.

Yes, you can orchestrate your death.

 

My thoughts about death are akin to finding a treasure waiting to be opened.

There is nothing maudlin or fearful, just curiosity and a sense of completion.

And just like birth there may be pain or fear, but I don’t think so..

And like birth, death is many things to many people.

Not everyone shares an overarching gratitude for life or a desire for an experience of conscious death.

 

But if you do, and would like to share this journey with me, I’m extending an invitation for you to come along and explore with me.

We'll leave the mundane world and see what is there, waiting in the dark.

 

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The Wisdom of the Wheel

 

My Soul finds its best expression in the great Cathedral of Nature.

 

Over the years people have asked me if I have any affiliations with a particular religion or belief system.

My answer is Gratitude.

I am grateful for all the ways that exist to express gratitude on this planet.

 

My personal relationship with this world is connection with nature.

I’ve always had a leaning toward the forest. That’s where I go

when I need to listen and return to alignment.

I like to follow the flow of everyday so I look to the Wheel of Life, 

a cycle where everything has its seasons and how those seasons tune 

us into being at one with the earth.

This comes from the Celtic agriculture cycles and you may be familiar with the Farmers Almanac which contains Calendars, Gardening times, Weather, Planting schedules, Tide tables and Articles of FolkLore.

 

The Wheel of Life tunes us into what the Earth is saying!

 

The Wheel has existed for eons, year after year, after year…
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Here’s a bit of the background 

There are four Seasons…

Death, Rebirth, Fertility, Harvest and then it revolves again.

The year starts with the Season of DEATH.

October 31st, also called Halloween or Samhain by the Celtic people.

Around the Wheel we have 8 major days of celebration of the Earth Cycle..

 Winter Solstice 

 Spring Equinox

Summer Solstice

Fall Equinox

These are points on the compass…

and we have four other points called cross quarter days.

Samhain

Candlemas

Beltane

Mabon

If you are not familiar with the Wheel I will do a class on this topic so you will understand the meaning of the points on the Earth cycles. 

Meanwhile, we will start our journey on the evening of Friday, October 31st. 

From that day on we will descend into complete darkness 

of the Winter Solstice on December 21st and return back out to the 

light again on Candlemas, February 1st.

 

This is the structure of how our three months unfold.

November, December and January

We will meet the dark.

We speak of Enlightenment but what about our Endarkenment.

We are comfortable in the Light but we must be equally 

comfortable in the darkness.

These three months, November, December, January will take us deep.

We will speak together about Death, Sexuality and how the Dark 

reflects the Light and how the Dark really isn’t dark.

We can shift organ failure on the planet.

We can facilitate the DEATH of all things.

Yes, Death is the place to end and to begin again.

 

As for me, I am in my golden years, which at some point, sooner than later, where I will meet Death.

I am preparing, and your company has been requested.

Let’s talk about how we could prepare death for ourselves or others.

 

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Here are the dates and times and some more logistical considerations:

 

We are meeting twice a week, 

Tuesday and Thursday evenings on Zoom, 

for approximately 2.5 to 3 hours each time we meet. 

And one weekend each month, six hours each day.

We do not meet on Holiday weeks.

I’ll have more information if we need it.

 

What are we doing in the dark?

 

Stories and Songs

There is incredible healing magic in songs

 

Finding a beautiful Journal

During these weeks create your herstory.

Imagine your granddaughter finding your Journal…

or does that only happen in films.

 

Creating and tending an Altar

Sharing what’s on your Altar, month to month

 

Creating a Wreath with the things of Fall and Winter

Branches and leaves, berries and nests

 

Create rituals and Celebrations

For your life and that of your family.

 

Lighting the Cauldron

 I’ll tell you the story of the Cailleach, the Hag of Winter

And Brigid, who brings back the Light

A sacred ritual that never ends until the end of time. 

 

Let’s have a discussion about the Eschaton…Is there an End of Time.

Are we there yet?

 

This is a time for listening and being listened to.

When I have offered classes in the past it is usually a four-day intensive 

with no time for processing.

In this three month journey we will connect and process 

 and have lots of time to go deeper together.

I’ll give you lots of suggestions. You give me some too.

Now is our time to die and let the leaves fall from the trees.

 

I will be with you for every class…

excited to hear what comes up every time we gather.

 

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The cost of the program is $1400.

 

I’m asking for a downpayment of at least $500 to register and if not paying in full at registration be ready to create with me a payment plan that is viable.

You have the first week after the start of the program to make sure this is the time and place for you. After that we make no returns.

And please remember this is a karmic debt we engender together.

 

We have a Calendar to give you with all the dates. 

Stay tuned…

 

I’ll be creating a curriculum in the next few days.

If you have a topic that you would like to bring forth, let me know.

 

At the end of this program you will have met death and utter stillness.

You’ll begin to know things now…


 

Opening weekend 

Friday, Oct 30th 6pm-8pm EST

Open house, introductions, and opening rituals

Saturday, Oct 31st 11am-5pm EST

Sunday, Nov 1st 11am- 5pm


 

Tuesdays and Thursdays each week.

6pm to 9pm EST

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The Wisdom of the Wheel Q and A
The Wisdom of the Wheel Q and A
Tue, Sep 22
Zoom
Join Whapio on a journey into the silence of death as she guides you through the wheel from Samhain to Imbolic. Weekly live calls with Whapio, weekly processing calls, daily rituals, and oh the transformation.

Are you curious about The Wisdom of the Wheel?

 

Schedule a call with Whapio at thebelovedpilgrim@gmail.com

Upcoming Events

  • The Wisdom of the Wheel Q and A
    The Wisdom of the Wheel Q and A
    Sep 22, 2026, 12:00 PM – 1:30 PM
    Zoom
    Join Whapio on a journey into the silence of death as she guides you through the wheel from Samhain to Imbolic. Weekly live calls with Whapio, weekly processing calls, daily rituals, and oh the transformation.
  • QUANTUM DOULA COHORT
    QUANTUM DOULA COHORT
    Wed, Jan 06
    Online via Zoom
    Jan 06, 2027, 12:00 PM EST – Mar 31, 2027, 7:00 PM EDT
    Online via Zoom
    Bridging Holistic Support with Clinical Awareness and Ancestral Wisdom Keeping Three months devoted to become the Holistic Doula your community needs October 3rd to Dec 20th
  • The Wisdom of the Wheel
    The Wisdom of the Wheel
    Date and time is TBD
    Date and time is TBD
    Zoom
    Before registration, be sure to email Whapio thebelovedpilgrim@gmail.com. She wants to be in communication with every member of this intimate counsel. Payments will be taken via Zelle by Whapio Cost is $1400
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Here's whats new
at the Matrona

~ Quantum Doula Cohort

Dear Holistic Doula Community,

 

We’re writing to share an important and exciting update about the upcoming Quantum Doula Cohort.

 

Our original plan was to gather together from October through December 2026. As we moved closer to the fall, elder midwife Whapio felt called to dedicate the end of this year to her newest body of work, The Wisdom of the Wheel.

 

In honoring that unfolding, we have decided to move the Quantum Doula Cohort into January of next year, and in the process, the program has grown into something even more intentional.

The Holistic Doula Cohort will now be a three-month journey, starting in January 2027, led by Coté Garceau and Jess Shine. Matrona teachers with years of experience in birth support.

Jess Shine and Coté Garceau Sáez have both answered the call to carry The Matrona’s teachings forward. Weaving Whapio’s wisdom into

the fabric of contemporary birth education and nurturing the next generations of Matronas.

 

Together, they serve as keepers of this lineage, dedicated to:

 

  • Supporting students with depth, intention, and presence

  • Nurturing embodied learning rooted in both intuition and clarity

  • Guiding families and birthworkers into the future of Quantum Birth

 

In this way, Whapio's work continues to unfold. Expanding across communities, cultures, and hearts, bringing renewed consciousness to birth, to caregiving, and to life itself.

 

Rooted deeply in The Matrona philosophy, the Holistic Doula Cohort program will bring together the wisdom of holistic birth, practical doula preparation, personal transformation, community, and the foundations for creating meaningful work in the birth world.

 

Throughout the three months, you can expect:

  • Weekly live classes with Coté and Jess

  • A deep exploration of birth as a physiological, emotional, spiritual, and altered-state experience

  • Practical tools for supporting families through pregnancy, labor, birth, and the early postpartum period

  • Business mentoring to help you begin or strengthen your doula practice. From developing your doula identity, to services, packages, contracts, birth support, prenatals, herbs, rituals and business tools that will help you create a heart-centered practice that can also be profitable.

  • Private Community. A safe place for conversations, reflection, and integration

  • Hours of additional recorded teachings from Whapio, gathered from decades of teaching holistic birth to doulas, midwives, and birthkeepers around the world

 

Our intention is to create something that goes beyond learning how to “do” doula work.

We want this to be a space where you learn how to be with birth — how to understand its rhythms, protect its physiology, recognize its transformative nature, and become a grounded and reassuring presence for the families you serve.

 

Whether you are completely new to birth work, beginning your doula path, or already working with families and longing for a deeper holistic framework, you are warmly invited to join us.

 

Registration for the new Holistic Doula Cohort opens September 10. We’ll be sharing the new dates, full curriculum, tuition, and registration details very soon.

 

If you were already feeling called to this work, we hope you’ll continue on this journey with us. We are incredibly excited about what this program is becoming and about the community that will gather around it.

 

With love and gratitude,

Coté Garceau & Jess Shine

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QUANTUM DOULA COHORT
QUANTUM DOULA COHORT
Wed, Jan 06
Online via Zoom
Bridging Holistic Support with Clinical Awareness and Ancestral Wisdom Keeping Three months devoted to become the Holistic Doula your community needs October 3rd to Dec 20th

Are you curious about the Quantum Doula Cohort?

 

Schedule a call with Coté at 630-2615789​

Since 2001, The Matrona has offered holistic birth education for birth workers and families.

We continue to do so, adding new programs as the birthing community grows and evolves.​

As we expand, our focus and curriculum remain centered on melding the intuitive with the academic,
the mystical with the intelligent.
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A word from Whapio...
 

As the Seasons change and we change with them
it’s clear that a new future is on the horizon.
In 2025 I will celebrate my 42nd year in the realms of birth and

I have seen many changes but none so pressing and timely

as the one I am seeing in birth right now.

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It's QUANTUM BIRTH, and I see it 

as the return to a model of care where the Caregiver has a
100% investment in the family.

 

It’s the return of Consciousness to Birth and the presence of

deeply connected women who can accompany, hold space and

not interfere in the instinctual responses of the family.

 

Here’s what a myriad of women have brought to my door…

We are tired of being managed and infantilized.
We resent our instinctual responses being overlooked or ignored.


We want affirmation, we get anxiety.
We want support, we get risk screening.
We want investment in us as the first priority!


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We have many wonderful and connected doctors and midwives

who are caring and conscientious but it doesn’t change the fact

that women are being managed, non prioritized and ignored.

Too many women are dissatisfied with their births

and want something different in their caregiver.
 

There is no blame here. No individuals, no specific thing.


As Dr. M. Odent says…We have just lost our way.
And he goes on to say that the answer is to return to square one.

 

I see square one as the Quantum Paradigm.
I see Self-Directed, Instinctual Birth with the

Return of Birth to the Family as the new future.

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Videos from The Matrona

Check in with us frequently as we bring you video clips representing different aspects of our Matrona education.

The Matrona
Birth as an Altered State of Consciousness: Brainwave States
Birth as an Altered State of Consciousness: Brainwave States

Birth as an Altered State of Consciousness: Brainwave States

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Advantages of Self Directed Birth

Advantages of Self Directed Birth

44:34
The Matrona Manifesto for Men: Fathers & Partners at Birth

The Matrona Manifesto for Men: Fathers & Partners at Birth

29:53
Becoming a Birth Keeper: Birth Consultant and Family Advocate

Becoming a Birth Keeper: Birth Consultant and Family Advocate

34:44
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OUR DISCLAIMER:

At the Matrona our programs do not certify students to practice midwifery.

Our programs offer an educational structure to understand birth in its organic and authentic unfolding. Our year long Birthkeeper’s Mentorship Cohort certifies students as a Professional Childbirth Consultant (PCC), a Family Advocate (FA) and a Certified Monitrice.  We support the concept of women caring for women. Any student wishing to pursue clinical midwifery should seek an apprenticeship after finishing our program.

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